In the end I realised that, the hurt never turned into hate, no matter how many reasons you may have to feel so. We can never stop loving people, like they say you cannot undo the love. Maybe, we don’t trust them anymore, but the love that was felt cannot reverse and it’s okay. And still, the memories may wet our eyes but that sparkle once felt can definitely force a smile in the heart, even if it’s hard on the lips.
I believe that what’s stopping people from letting go and moving on is the mystery that seems still unresolved even after years. I’ve seen people weeping over the same individual even after so many years and not letting their heart fall for any other person. The stronger they once fell in love, the harder they find to let go. They make loneliness their best friend, because the part of the heart once allocated for someone is still right their filled with memories even though the person is not there. How do you teach that part of the heart that the person won’t return? Yeah, that part is stubborn, it knows that there is no comeback but still do not want to give that part again to anyone else. Still figuring out, is it fear? Or uncertainty? Or just stubbornness? Whatever it is, one thing is clear, it feels horrible.