We all need love and we are constantly looking for it. Aren't we? However, in the chase for love we often forget that love always begin from ourselves. Instead, we expect love always from outside.
Talk to yourself. How much do you love yourself? How much attention have you given to your physicality and mentality recently? You look into the mirror every single day, groom yourself up just to impress somebody else? I've seen guys going to the gym just to impress their girl, to look good for her. And girls dress up to impress their boyfriend, sometimes wear clothes which the boyfriend likes. There is nothing wrong that I see in this.... But remember, you need to impress yourself first.
Look at the mirror, talk to yourself and compliment what a beautiful person you are. Dress up well, buy new clothes and give yourself a sweet treat in the first place. You need to look good for yourself. Accept all your imperfections first in order to expect the same from somebody else. You are indeed the most beautiful for you when you start loving yourself.
Do not change yourself for somebody else, expect if the change is about a bad habit or something that causes trouble to yourself or others. Allow people who love you for who you actually are, regardless of any and every imperfection that you have, into your circle. People who expect you to change for them are not meant for you. Keep in mind, changing yourself for somebody else will never keep you happy for long.You'll start hating yourself.
Do what makes you happy. Have some time for yourslef to reflect upon you. Appreciate yourself for your hard work and for surpassing all the obstacles so far. Pay gratitude to everybody and everything that has helped you become who you are. You need to always be there for yourself even when no nobody else does. When you start loving and respecting yourslef, you will start attracting more and more love from outside.
CHEERS!
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