Be Your Best Self

I ve learnt that often people do not actually appreciate you when you go above and beyond, they just begin to expect it.

Sometimes we do so much, give our level best and try our hardest to keep everyone around happy but get nothing in return. Sometimes not even a smile or a thank you. This can be very disheartening.... but don't ever let this stop you from being who you are. No matter how people perceive you or treat you, that is up to them. Those are their values and their judgements. Do not ever change yourself or stop the good work you do based on someone else's characteristics. Trust me, one day this will all come back to you. You '' ll look back and see all the blessings and happiness you've earned. Until then, trust yourself and show the ungrateful people how giving, grateful and kind one can be. 

But, if you are treated like simply one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. If they make you feel that your presence doesn't make any change, let them eat alone. Because sometimes, doing your best while being neglected can eventually burn you out and you'll gradually start hating what you loved. Remember, even the strongest, hard-working and independent people have limits and they too deserve to rest. Know your value and do not settle for anything less than what you deserve. 

Cheers to all the STRONG SOULS out there.....