Hope

 Cheating is not a mistake, it's a choice.  When you cheat someone, you disrupt their ability to feel safe in the world. Their belief in trust, humanity and love will never be the same and they will change forever. If you don't love someone and do not want them in your life, don't ruin their outlook on love and life. You maybe giving them pain that holds a lifetime and filling their minds with insecurity of never finding true love ever again. They'll never trust again and disappear when attachments start building. And the way a person perceive hurt is different. If it's a person who trust too much, give too much and love too much, they'll hurt too much as well.  

When a person hurts you, the best thing to do is keep quiet. Say "it's okay" and wish them the best, because if you were not enough for them, your words will not matter at all. You need not know the whole story as to why they did that to decide what's best for you.

Healing from hurt is not a linear process. It's often a very difficult and complicated journey with many emotions involved. We all have our personal and unique way of healing. Do not lose hope if you feel like you are back at square one all over again. Some days will be fine and you might feel at your worse the next day. And that's okay. Just cry. wipe your tears and smile again.